" Be back
at night...Mom! ", and she was gone, speeding off in
her expensive Lancer
That was holidays.
Gwendolyn sighed
once again. She had made so many plans for the next two
weeks.
She wished she
had been like the other single mothers she knew. They let
nature handle the entire stuff...didn't fuss over the kids,
went partying...holidaying...having a jolly good time.
But...how on
earth was she to cope with this....her 25 year old daughter
who spoke in monosyllables, refused to have the same food
that she had...no hamburgers for her, no chicken, no meat,
no cosmetics, no perfume, no rum, no wine...and why for
goodness sake, no boyfriends.
What on earth
was Briggie turning into...some kind of self obsessed workaholic
moron.
Gwendolyn had
a mind-brain coordination problem... In her mind frame she
hadn't grown up her daughter.
To Gwen Briggie
was still the photo-framed picture - sometimes six, sometimes
eleven....sometimes 13....sometimes 17 but never older than
that.
Recently, a new
problem had come bounding into her life.
Often, the last
few months ever since she had seen a recent animation movie
on television, every time her daughter spoke to her, the
photo-framed picture from the living room would morph it's
way into her face and all she would see was a five year
old with two missing teeth, clinging to her Barbie doll
and hugging her, saying " I love you Mom". This
was crazy!
What on earth
was happening to Gwendolyn. Was she aging early?
With her unconventional
dress sense and her allergy to all makeup and hair dyes,
at 50, Gwendolyn could easily pass off as a respectable
65 year old...Often, while walking to the supermarket with
her daughter in the university campus where her daughter
had studied, Gwen would be politely greeted by the department
clerks as Briggie's grandma.
Her tangled silver
hair was never in place.
She had brought
up her kid working at a bakery.
Her batter beaten
worn out palms and spatulate hands had kneaded truckloads
of yeasty dough to bake enough bread and cake to see her
daughter through high school and then an expensive college...and
then even upto graduate school.
Now, armed with
an MBA, Brigitte had landed a cushy job.
And mom was beginning
to feel like a forgotten bit of architecture in Brigitte's
action planning mind...That's how Gwendolyn thought and
felt.
When the doorbell
rang at ten that night, imagine Gwen's surprise when she
saw Brigitte holding out a beautifully decorated basket
with a happy pair of playful kittens…the Persians
she had always dreamed about.